We're going to Jackson

I think that, maybe, forgiveness is the key to moving on and maybe avoidance is the key to every earth-shattering break up.

Weeks, months, and for some perhaps years are spent picking and dissecting at all of the shitty things about that person, and the things they have done to you, and whom they have done that to you with. It's that person that makes you groan out loud, the one you spend your time being upset about, or angry at. All the energy in your body pulsates in thinking, caring, crying, hurting till one morning you'll wake up tired, weakened at the core where you used to feel like a million dollars. I think that if you aren't going to do anything about your hurt, as in no confrontation, then there's really no productive use for it anymore.

Yeah this is probably going to sound like complete bullshit and dribble. This is nawwwt me but I'm watching it from afar and have been for way too long. Let them and the others be Lucifer, let yourself be whomever. Realise that they might be shit but you are too and move on.

P.S. I love it when couples break up.